It is the start of week 5 of the “ Corona Virus-lockdown” in New Jersey and I have to take advantage of the huge opportunity of time that I have to improve myself. Thus far, I have done a decent job of getting things in order. During the first few days of the lockdown, I had the time I needed to grieve a friend and colleague who passed away on the first day of the lockdown after a long illness. I felt bad that I was not physically there at the funeral or able to be with my staff to help them through the grieving process, but there was nothing that I could do. The time away from everyone allowed me to put things in perspective and move forward, even with a heavy heart. I still think about him every day. It was a devastating process to go through. During the next two and a half weeks, I got used to working from home, setting up a virtual learning environment, having meetings when no one was in the room, having the 1-to-1 talks that I needed to have with my staff and students, and getting consistent with my workouts, my meditation, my Taekwondo, and my guitar. Last week, I spent most of the time getting my staff and students ready for spring break. My family and I had a nice Easter. My wife even put little masks on the chocolate bunny rabbits. You have to include humor no matter the situation. My family and I are in a fortunate (healthy) place.
Now it is time to move forward. I actually have off this Monday and I plan to get two major work-projects completed by the end of this week. Now that I have everything in order, it is time to focus on taking things to the next level. My goal, to “Just Be Better”, whether as a father, a husband, a musician, a school administrator, an athlete, a writer, a reader, a sleeper, a gardener, a martial artist, a weight lifter, a folder of laundry, a bathroom cleaner, a coach, a mentor, a friend, and most importantly, as a person.
Whatever your situation, good luck, stay healthy, and “Just Be Better” (JBB)