Tag: Growth Mindset

Rise, Learn, and Grow

It’s essential to rise one more time than you fall. But let’s be honest: growth doesn’t come from simply getting back up—it comes from learning from the fall.

For years, I used to dwell on my mistakes through the lens of embarrassment and regret. I’d replay what I did wrong, questioning myself: What was I thinking? How could I mess up like that? This cycle of negative thoughts didn’t lead to growth—it kept me stuck.

Lately, I’ve shifted my perspective. Instead of obsessing over what I was thinking, I asked, What did I learn? After all, I’m an imperfect human—sometimes more human than I’d like to admit.

This change in mindset has been transformative. Rather than spiraling into negativity, I’ve begun to embrace the lessons from my mistakes. I’m growing, not just getting back up but moving forward.

And let me tell you—it’s made all the difference.

Why not give it a try? The next time you stumble, focus on the lesson, not the regret. Growth might just surprise you.#JustBeBetter
#StayStrongStayHealthy
#IOwnTheMorning
#WWKDD

Force the Future #6 – Compete

If you want to Force the Future, you must always compete—not just when things are good, not just when you are winning, not just when the weather is good, not just when you had a good night’s sleep. 

You must always compete.

Competing is the process. It is the journey. It is what allows you to force the future.

# Force the Future

# Just Be Better

# Stay Strong, Stay Healthy

  1. #ForceTheFuture
  2. #CompeteAlways
  3. #ContinuousImprovement
  4. #NeverSettle
  5. #Persistence
  6. #Resilience
  7. #GrowthMindset
  8. #ChallengeYourself
  9. #StayDetermined
  10. #SuccessMindset

Resolutions

I hope you are having a safe and happy holiday season.

This is the time I start hearing people talk about resolutions. The number of people discussing resolutions beginning on the New Year is exhausting. I do not waste my time engaging in these conversations. If someone wants to change right now, I will engage and support them. I have a workout partner who wants to be a black belt by the end of 2024. This person is not unhappy that they are “only” a brown belt, but they want to build on their mastery and understanding of Taekwondo.

I am not trying to be a ”Scrooge” to others who do not understand that postponing change is a predictor of falling short of one’s goals. I struggle with engaging with those who write resolutions based on their unhappiness. They develop goals mired in negativity. Establishing goals on a negative is another method to set yourself up for failure.

I hardly hear people speak about setting resolutions based on a good thing they want to improve. I want to listen to people develop their resolutions on growth, not unhappiness. Resolutions from a positive perspective are more likely to succeed. For example, “I want to lose another 10 pounds.” is based on negativity. It includes the word lose and implies that one is fat. It does not focus on anything they are doing well. Another way to state this goal is to say, “I want to be 10 pounds lighter so I can fit into my size 32 jeans.” This statement is based on two goals: 10 pounds lighter and 32” waste. This statement is a much better design. They want to build on the positive things they have accomplished and be more successful. You cannot base your future on positive results when you are mired in a negative present and hope to be successful.

If you are making a resolution, base it on positive things. Take what you are doing and look to make it better. Base the resolution on positive outcomes and refuse to use any negatives in the development process or the final statement. You are doing things well and want to improve on them, which is the best perspective.

Send me your goals. I would be happy to provide feedback.

Happy New Year, and Good Luck with your Goals!!

Just Be Better

Stay Healthy, Stay Strong.